It was just a normal conversation between me and my room partner Ajay Modi.We happened to talk about ‘How over a period of time people change and their dreams die down.’
This made me think not only for some hours , but for a few days after which I decided to write on my blog.It is not only myself or Ajay but everyone might have seen people who are very good in studies but over a period of time their fire power goes down and than finally a stage comes when they are content with their lives.
Ajay mentioned about one of his friend’s who is very much intelligent and can do much more in life than he is doing currently but he hasn’t tried to do something more….He had lots of dreams in college while they were studying together in IIT,Roorkee but now things have changed for his friend. It is not only his friend but in every company,we would find such people for whom technology is just a way of living whereas they could contribute much more by thinking out of the box and doing something innovative.
But the question is “Why do things change?”. The most critical reason for this change is the attitude which we have towards our life . Every individual is like a bird(who can fly freely in the sky) , but when birds fly in a group , than it becomes important with whom they are flying . Similar to birds , in real life , the company(ie colleagues and friends) that we have also matters.So, we should take advice from the right set of people and learn from them(as well as our mistakes) and ignore the LOSER category of people.
As Guy Kawasaki says in his book “Art of the Start” — “It is very easy to ignore people who have not achieved anything in life and they are considered as losers”.
Hence, it is important to be in the right company(ie set of friends and colleagues) so that our thoughts get enhanced and this would lead us live a better life and achieve a higher scale of success.
PS:I am just an ordinary guy(or should I say “I am no Guru”, as told by Robin Sharma) but my thoughts encourage me to do something more(and go an extra mile) than what I can do , which extracts the best out of me and gives me immense sense of accomplishment.